It’s been almost a year since I knew her. This is how fast time flies. We got to know one another through another common friend of ours. We met in HRC. Always, people will think that meeting someone in a club isn’t a good thing. But for me, it was the other way round. I actually found my soul mate here. I was amazed when we first met one another. We had the same thinking, the same taste in clothes, food, etc and even look alike. Don’t believe? Wait till I post those pictures. I promised I’ll do it as soon as I can.
She is one girl who is open to people’s thoughts but conservative to her own thoughts. She accepts people for who they are. In other words, she looks you through the inside not by seeing your appearance. It’s funny how we got close when I think about it. At first, she was just my “hi/bye” friend until one day when we were officially introduced to one another. We were both at first close to this common friend of ours but then in the end we came out of the way and are even closer. So now, it’s just me and her. Not that the other friend dumb us or we dump her, but it was her attitude that automatically made us a distance.
Let’s name that friend A ok.
I knew about A’s attitude after a while I mixed with her. She wasn’t that type of person whom will actually appreciate friendship by the end of the day. She is the type which takes advantage if she can. Before, I just let it be, when she goes over the limit, I tend to let it go. In fact my close friend thinks the same too. We never did complain to one another about A because in my thinking was that she was good to her and she thought that I was good to her. But it wasn’t the case. Till one day, when I said I’m supposed to fetch A home and she told me, she have a sister to fetch, why must you do it? She even said to me, please don’t let her use you too much and you don’t listen to her too much. You will get nothing out of it. When I heard those words, I then realize she thinks alike. Meaning she has the same thought about A as well.
She knew A long time ago back in her college days. I only knew both of them last year when I went to hard rock so frequent that I made a lot of new friends. The scenario in our case is just like a puzzle. I have certain part and she has certain part. Till one day we both can’t stand it, we just try to join the puzzles together and the outcome of this is what we got. That is how we got closer. She is 5 years my senior. I don’t know what will happen if she gets married. Though she haven’t find a bf yet, but soon to come she will get married earlier than me of course. She told me if possible she wants to married before 30 and she is 27 already in fact turning 28 soon.
I hope we have at least another year to enjoy to the maximum! I also hope even though she gets married, we still remain close like how we use to. Of course she will not have enough time just for me but once every week is good enough. She supports me in what ever I want to do. I love her even more than any one else (of course besides my parents). She made my birthday celebration in hard rock a very memorable and unforgettable one. She did anything to make me happy that night. She lends me a helping hand every time when I’m in trouble. She gave me comforting words every time when I’m feeling down. She buys me dinner when she knew I didn’t have enough money.
She is like my sister. Although she has older sisters and younger ones too, but people say I look even more like her. In fact her own sister said we look a like too. But we are not. Different race, different hometown different parents! That is what I call a soul mate.
Ryn & Yuen
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